Making the Decision to Retire
All of the horses that reside with us at our farm are here to enjoy being retired, and a select few are here to enjoy being a horse for a year or two and then to hopefully go back to work. We get a lot of questions about why the horses are retired. Some are retired due to age, some are retired due to injury, some are retired due to permanent damage caused by an illness. Some are very young, some are quite elderly, most are somewhere in between.
When does someone make the decision to retire a horse? Of course that decision is different for everyone. Some of the horses here could still do light duty work like easy trail riding. Some of them simply don’t have a temperament suitable to being a low level trail type mount. They might be to hot, too spooky, or simply not enjoy that type of work. In its way that makes the decision to retire easy. Sometimes it is simply a matter of an aging horse that is not easily holding up to work anymore. In other cases the decision was made to retire when the horse was still perfectly sound but their owners felt like they had worked hard for a long time and the time had come to say thank you to their partner and let them enjoy the good life (for all of you who think horses need a job to be happy you really need to come visit our farm).
With some horses the answer to the question when do you retire them is easy. The horse has had an injury and they simply are not going to fully recover. A common term to describe their situation would be “pasture sound.”
All too often it seems the decision is not always as straightforward. As an example I have friend who has rehabbed her mare from three different tendon injuries (two of them the same injury on two separate occasions). Any one who has rehabbed a soft tissue injury knows that there is a lot of waiting, hoping, stall resting, hand walking, tack walking, and attempting to keep a very wired and bored horse from going crazy. There is nothing fun about it in my experience.
I have to admit if it was me I probably would not have done the third rehab. Her mare is now back in full work but I know for me, mentally, I just couldn’t handle it. I would forever be holding my breath waiting for my horse to break again and it would ruin any enjoyment of riding my horse. Every time I went to ride I would be wondering if today was the day that my horse was going to come up lame again. This is all due to my history of going multiple rounds with rehabbing my own horse. I’m permanently scarred from the roller coaster that was her soundness. One time Jason told me it was like watching me be in an abusive relationship. No matter what I did the horse did not stay sound long term yet I kept trying, hoping, spending the money, putting in the time, always to wind up in the same place again. I always say it is the hope that kills you because it was always the hope that kept killing me.
Speaking only for myself I can say the day I finally made the decision to retire her was a huge relief. I felt like the weight of the world had been lifted off my shoulders. Due to several life circumstances at the time I was not in the position to get another horse to ride. That was part of what made me keep going on the quest for soundness, because at the time she was my only hope at having a horse I could ride and show. With the gift of hindsight the only thing I would change about that decision is that I would have made it earlier. As that whole saga unfolded I felt like I helped finance a new wing at Rood & Riddle in Lexington and had nothing to show for it in the end.
Back to the question of when do you make the decision to retire your horse? Well, my friend chose to do a third rehab and so far it is working out for her. I would have made the call to retire when the third injury happened, especially since it was a repeat injury. I really admire her for being able to go through a third rehab, since by that point you know how hard it can be on you and the horse. Her horse is back in full work but I would still be stressed waiting for everything to fall apart again. Now when there is anything amiss with one of my horses my hope is always for a very clear cut answer, be it good news or bad news. I’ve found I don’t like living in the gray area that involves a lot of hoping, praying, lighting candles and chanting, waiting (endless waiting), and lots of expensive diagnostics and treatments to go along with it all.
A few years ago as I was loading one of my horses on the trailer to go to the clinic for a lameness exam Jason told me that I needed to be sure and tell the vet that the word “well” was banned from the conversation. As in nothing starting with “well, it could be . . . ” was allowed. Thankfully that turned out to be an easy to diagnose – and easy to treat – issue. If only it could always be like that!!
I am curious to hear from others who have found themselves on the soundness roller coaster (and if you’ve never been on it I hope you never EVER find yourself on it) how far do you take it? Do you have dollar amount that you won’t exceed, a timeframe, number of rehabs . . . ? Or do you stop when you mentally just can’t take it anymore?
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